
Official Website of
Hifzul Rahman Kottangodan PhD, CHLC, CPI
Pre-Alliance, Marital, Couple Counselling
Heal Relationships. Build Foundations. Grow in Love.
Are you:
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Anxious about entering a marriage?
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Recovering from the pain of a previous relationship or divorce?
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Trapped in an unhealthy romantic attachment?
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Struggling with intimacy or emotional connection in your marriage?
You are not alone—and we’re here to help.
Why Relationship Counselling Matters
Relationships are a sacred trust and one of the most powerful influences on your emotional and spiritual well-being. However, trauma, past experiences, poor communication, or family interference can create deep emotional wounds and block intimacy, trust, and love.
Whether you are preparing for marriage or already in a relationship facing struggles, our counselling can guide you towards peace, healing, and clarity.
Our Approach: Holistic, Culturally Sensitive, and Spiritually Grounded
We combine:
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Psychological counselling
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Islamic marriage guidance
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Family and relationship therapy
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Spiritual and emotional healing
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Conflict resolution and mediation
Our counselling is confidential, non-judgmental, and respectful of your background, beliefs, and values.
We Help With:
Pre-Marriage / Alliance Counselling:
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Clarifying expectations and values
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Healing emotional baggage from the past
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Guidance for compatibility and long-term harmony
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Addressing fears, confusion, or family concerns
Marital Counselling:
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Communication issues
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Intimacy problems (emotional or physical)
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Trust or betrayal recovery
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Balancing family roles and expectations
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Working with in-laws or third-party stressors
Unhealthy Romantic Attachments:
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Breakup healing
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Letting go of toxic bonds
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Realigning your heart with divine love and self-worth
Family-Inclusive, When Needed
When the issue is rooted in family involvement, we mediate between:
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Bride/Groom and parents
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In-laws and couple
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Elders and the couple’s decisions
We help resolve the hidden emotional or spiritual dynamics that can disturb peace in relationships.
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Healing with Compassion & Wisdom
Our counselling sessions may include:
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Islamic spiritual support (dua, dhikr, ruqyah if needed)
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Emotional detox and belief reprogramming
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Trauma-informed therapy for relationship wounds
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Role clarification and personality realignment
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Coaching for marriage success and leadership
Book Your Session
Whether you're preparing for marriage or facing relationship distress, it’s time to bring clarity and healing.

Call/ WhatsApp in +919061237800