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Hifzul Rahman Kottangodan PhD, CHLC, CPI
Life Coaching
Personality Reframing Coaching: Illuminating the Soul’s Light
Our Personality Reframing Coaching places the Light of the Soul (NÅ«r) at the heart of transformation. Based in holistic coaching, Islamic psychology, and parapsychological insight, this method helps you reconnect with your divinely endowed essence (Rūḥ) to heal trauma, reshape identity, and restore emotional freedom. When the soul’s light is activated, it dissolves fear, victimhood, and confusion—rebuilding your personality with clarity, purpose, and peace.
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Soul-Light: The Core of Healing and Change
The soul is the source of your inner light, breathed into you by Allah (Qur’an 15:29). It holds purity, wisdom, and divine connection. As the soul’s light expands, it:
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Illuminates the subconscious mind and emotional wounds
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Breaks negative cycles and self-defeating patterns
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Restores fitrah (natural state) and true identity
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Guides personality toward joy, confidence, and balance
When we reconnect with this divine light, true healing begins—not just at the mental level, but deep in the core of who we are.
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Collective Unconscious: Shared Fields of Light or Darkness
We are all connected to a vast collective unconscious—a shared energy field found across cultures and religions:
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Islam: Lawh al-Mahfūz (Preserved Tablet), Ruhaniyah (spiritual influences)
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Hinduism: Akashic Records
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Mysticism & Philosophy: Universal Mind, Unus Mundus, Collective Soul
When this field is positive, it amplifies healing. When negative, it spreads fear, grief, trauma, and confusion. Our method helps you disconnect from toxic emotional energy and re-align with your soul’s higher field of light, knowledge, and divine mercy.
What We Address in Personality Reframing
Our sessions help resolve:
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Emotional transference from parents, elders, or community
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Childhood wounds and emotional imprints
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Jinn interference, black magic, and evil eye
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Inner conflict, overthinking, compulsive fear, or trauma
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Victimhood, people-pleasing, guilt, or extreme self-criticism
Coaching Modules: Reframing from Within
Our step-by-step video and live coaching modules (offered online and offline) guide you through:
Identity Reset
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Understanding the inner child
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Healing from past roles, labels, and expectations
Soul Awakening
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Reconnecting with Nūr al-Rūḥ (light of the soul)
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Strengthening self-connection and fitrah
Emotional Boundaries
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Learning to say “no” without guilt
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Detaching from toxic energy, relationships, and enmeshment
Reparenting
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Rebuilding the inner nurturing parent
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Giving yourself the care, voice, and safety once denied
Problem Solving & Mindset
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Reframing fear, guilt, and overthinking
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Developing clarity, courage, and decision-making skills
Healthy Relationships
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Healing from emotional abandonment or manipulation
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Building authentic, values-based bonds with others
Finding Joy & Meaning
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Moving from survival to thriving
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Living with gratitude, purpose, and spiritual abundance
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Soul-Light vs. Darkness: A Spiritual Psychology
Without inner light, we become vulnerable to:
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Emotional transference & ancestral trauma
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Paranormal disturbance (sihr, ayn, jinn)
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Repeating negative patterns
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Depression, apathy, or impulsive behaviors
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Our coaching cleanses, realigns, and reframes your identity through:
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Spiritual cleansing (ruqyah) and space clearing
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Mind-body-soul reprogramming using Islamic metaphysical principles
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Conscious living guided by divine connection and intuitive wisdom
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For Whom Is This Coaching?
You may benefit if you:
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Struggle with anxiety, fear, or loss of self-worth
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Feel stuck in toxic relationships or repeated life patterns
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Are affected by spiritual negativity or generational energy
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Seek to build emotional strength with Islamic clarity
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Long for inner peace, joy, purpose, and authenticity
A Faith-Integrated, Science-Backed Approach
We blend:
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Psychology & Cognitive Restructuring
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Inner Child & Family Systems Therapy
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Islamic Spirituality (Qur’anic healing, dhikr, ruqyah)
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Parapsychological insight into unseen realities
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Epigenetics, emotional release, energy psychology